You always have such amazing words of wisdom for your fellow ZOO-FM fans, so here's another relationship related email from one of our listeners. Let me know what you think.

My boyfriend and I broke up about six months ago and I haven’t been with anyone since. I don’t miss him in a boyfriend way – but I do miss the intimacy. (Like I said, I haven’t been with ANYONE since.) I guess my question is – would it be the worst thing in the world to see if he just wants to hook up, no strings attached? Or am I setting myself up for major drama?

Thanks for your help,
Selena

 

Selena -

I say NO WAY! Don't get into that mess! Not only are you setting yourself up for major drama, unless you can be intimate with him without feeling ANY emotion you're also setting yourself up for a major heartbreak - again. There are plenty of fish in the sea, reel in a new one and throw that one back, there's a reason you broke up. Hope that helps!